A Long Weekend of Promise
By Marcello (our guest guy writer)
Q: I met a guy in a European pub over a year ago, during two high drama hours at a bar (friend got in an accident). We’ve kept in touch online ever since, casually communicating. No talk of romantic interest on either side, but consistent friendly emailing. Now he’s invited me to visit him for a long weekend. I’m going for the travel opportunity, and for hell of it - but not sure what to expect. What’s your gut tell you? Is he potentially interested? Or just looking for a friend?
- Passport Experimenter, Hackensack, NJ
Dear Passport Experimenter: There’s something about “long weekend” that says there is a romantic potential in his offer. It’s enough time to let things develop naturally, but (hopefully) not too long to get on each other’s nerves.
It sounds like you’re both casual in your interest. As long as you don’t have any deep expectations either way, I would suggest that you go with your gut. If you’re attracted to him, throw a little caution to the wind and pursue what could, at the very least, be three days of all kinds of fun.
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March 3rd, 2011 by Ali
