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    Mother of the Groom Dress for July Wedding

    Ask Alison:

    Hey Alison! Been keeping up with you, girl! So cool how many people and places you are charming with your sweet self. You are rockin’ it! Way to go. My oldest son is getting married in July, outside at a country club. It is a 4pm ceremony.
    As you might recall, the ladies are large! I have dropped from a size 22 down to a 16 since I saw you last, but am still on the heavy side. What would you suggest? And what about a hat? I so appreciate any ideas!

    -Becky, Keystone Heights, Fl

    Answer:

    Hey Becky,
    Outside in July means there will be heat and humidity to deal with, especially if we’re talking about Florida. If indeed the country club is in Florida then I would suggest skipping the hat unless it’s lightweight, medium to wide brimmed raffia in a pale woven color. Then you can add a ribbon or flower of your choice to match with your dress. While we’re still letting thoughts of Kate and William dance in our heads remember that affair was held in a cool interior and most women dressed in conservative suits. The hats were fun, but most of the outfits were a bit dull. Most important is to choose the dress and you can think about a hat later since depending how long the ceremony runs it can lead to a hot, perspiring mess under the hat and flattened hair.

    As a mother of the groom you do not and should not feel required to match with the colors of the bridal party. So your first choice is long or cocktail length? Then choose colors that best suit your skin tone. Next, get yourself some good shapewear from a smooth, but supportive bra and another item to smooth out any lines and lumps from appearing when you slip on the dress. You know it and I know it, no matter what our size, shapewear helps.
    So here are a few of my top suggestions:
    Cocktail Length:
    This dress is not white and not close to white, just in case you were concerned. I think the fabric would hug your body nicely and it looks quite chic.
    V-neck platinum cocktail dress
    DavidMeister.com, $525, but I found it at LaGrandeDame.com for $160
    A satiny fit-and-fare dress with embellished pockets. Add silver or gunmetal heels.
    OC by Oleg Cassini Portrait Collar dress
    This dress won’t hug your hips or thighs while still accentuating your waist.
    Tadashi Shoji Dance Dress
    Saks.com, $415
    Ruffles, ruching and pleating.
    Adrianna Papell Ruched Dress & Bolero
    A strong, but sophisticated deep blue that can be dolled up with accessories.
    Cybelle Cocktail Dress
    Igigi.com, $162
    Jewel tone stretch satin v-neck cocktail dress that offers a flattering neckline.
    While I am usually not a fan of brown this cut is flattering for the neckline and the room it gives in the waist and hips.
    Stretch taffeta cocktail dress
    Long versions:
    Good color for a summer wedding and should move easily on the dance floor.
    David Meister Jersey Cowl Neck Gown
    Saks.com, $330
    This is one of those dresses with the right accessories like gold strappy sandals and jeweled drop earrings that you could look young and gorgeous.
    Celebration Wrap dress in jade.
    Igigi.com, $155
    Certainly age appropriate and still stylish for mom of the groom. The ruching and wrapping can help hug your curves.
    Tadashi Shoji Asymmetric Drape Gown
    Saks.com, $312
    Skip how young the model looks and think about your face instead. This could swish and sway around guests and make a lovely, approachable look.
    Estrella Hyacinth Violet Gown
    Igigi.com, $275

    June 8th, 2011 by Ali